Just wondering

Dear Anne...

Hi, i saw you have a blog where you give people some good advice. i kinda would like to get a girls advice about something kinda private that i don't want the whole world to know about, like my mom and dad...lol


my gf (13) and i have been messing around more and more when we are alone together. i just have a couple of questions about a few things that i'd like to ask some girl who can help me out so i don't feel so dumb about certian things when me and my gf are having a nice time being alone together. she's had two bfs before and had sex with them. i've not had sex before, and kinda not to sure about how fast we should go. last time we messed around she kinda seemed like she wanted to have sex, but we couldn't because my parents got home before we got that far. i am thinking about talking to her about it. do you think its a good idea to ask her if she wanted to have sex if my parents had not come home? (my parents didn't suspect anything, they just thought we were watching a movie).


i was surpised when she told me she had sex with the other two bfs because she's a very nice girl. she kinda told a little about it, saying she was in love and felt like she was ready.




thanks for any advice you might have.

From, bob


AWNSER:
hi bob :)

Well first just be shure your ready, and your not doing it to show off or because you feel you need to do it because that would bring problems you dont need. But other then that i think it would be good to ask her, she would probbably be honest about it since she sounds like a confident girl. The worst she could say is no right?


And your probbably already aware, but its illegal for you guys to have sex at your age. You would get in a lot of trouble since your the oldest. I just want to make shure you know

If you want to know ways to make her like happy you can look it up online , just look for what her astrological sign is.
Some dont believe in those things but i do because what they say about me is so true and all the info i put was my sign! haha just an idea


Your girl sounds really nice & so do you so I know things will go well.

Good luck , im allways happy to help c:

Love, Anne

I think my boyfriends cheating on me...

Dear Anne,
Hi, uhm yea the title says it all... Here is why i think he is:
-hes not himself anymore
-he doesnt even text me anymore
-i saw him laughing with another girl last week and when hes with me its like he doesnt even smile


I dont know whats wrong! Is it me? Maybe he got tired of me? What do i do?

Sincerely,
Someone from Utah

AWNSER:

Hi someone ;) Im going to just start with it and say, I don't think hes cheating on you. I think he might be planning on breaking up with you . Some guys tend to do that, before they break up with you they let the relationship cool off first.


I might be wrong, other things could explain his wierd behaving. It could be anything from drugs to family problems. So before jumping to conclusions, ask him. I know asking him was the last thing you wanted to do, but if you want a 100% accurate awnser it has to come from him.


NEVER, come to the conclusion that it is your fault! It's easy to do but blaming your self won't make it any better. If he does break up with you, then just move on. The right boy will one day come for you, so allways keep your smile on because you never know when that will be. :)

Love,
Anne

Go on, ask ;)

Email me at jazzattackk@rocketmail.com ;) i kinda ....accidently... Erased all of my emails -___- so if you sent in a question in the past few days im sorry but can you send it again? *blushes*

My friends keep backstabbing me

Dear Anne,

Hi, i have more then one problem, but their all about the same thing. My friends keep backstabbing me! I think they are true friends, but then when i least expect it they start spreading rumors about me. Why? What do I do?

Love becka from cali


AWNSER:

Hi Becka! Let me start off by saying to not get mad. I know it seems hard, but anger will only make the situation seem worse.
I think the problem here is that you are hanging out with the wrong people. Think to yourself"Would i do what all of them did?"
If you yourself would back stab someone else, then sadly your with the group you belong with. Maybe you should consider changing who you hang out with overall? But first make sure, you change who YOU are.
If you wouldn't back stab your own friends, then your in the wrong crew! The only way to get people to stop treating you bad is to stop being with them once they do. Am i making sense? To avoid bad things get away from those who are bad.
Many might advice you to maybe get back at them with something ruthless ,but let me say that to those who have hurt you, seeing you happy is the best revenge you can take :)

Take care
Love, Anne

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