Wednesday, June 22, 2011

My friends keep backstabbing me

Dear Anne,

Hi, i have more then one problem, but their all about the same thing. My friends keep backstabbing me! I think they are true friends, but then when i least expect it they start spreading rumors about me. Why? What do I do?
Love becka from cali


AWNSER:

Hi Becka! Let me start off by saying to not get mad. I know it seems hard, but anger will only make the situation seem worse.
I think the problem here is that you are hanging out with the wrong people. Think to yourself"Would i do what all of them did?"
If you yourself would back stab someone else, then sadly your with the group you belong with. Maybe you should consider changing who you hang out with overall? But first make sure, you change who YOU are.
If you wouldn't back stab your own friends, then your in the wrong crew! The only way to get people to stop treating you bad is to stop being with them once they do. Am i making sense? To avoid bad things get away from those who are bad.
Many might advice you to maybe get back at them with something ruthless ,but let me say that to those who have hurt you, seeing you happy is the best revenge you can take :)

Take care
Love, Anne

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