Worrying

Dear Anne,
Well, I am a 15 just to let you know. But me and my
boyfriend dated for about 5 months in the last school
year and then we broke up and we talked all summer
and what not. Now as the new school year has come
we are going back out and this time is much much
better. There's only one problem...he wants to come
over to my house. You see the last time we dated we
didn't really hang out much, outside of school. Now
that things are way more serious, it should be normal
for a girlfriend and boyfriend to hang out outside of
school. The main problem is, I live in a mobile home
and he lives in a really nice neighbor hood. I know
that it shouldn't matter becuase he's my boyfriend
but I'm so scared to invite him over. I don't know
what he'll say, it's killing me and I don't have any
confidence in this. What should I do?

-M
AWNSER:




Hi M,
This sounds just like something that happened to me.
I lived in a trailer, and my bestfriend lived in a fancy
two story house. I never invited her to my house
because I was embarassed of what she would think.
But then it hit me. Theirs a reason why shes my
bestfriend right? Because she would never judge me.
So i invited her over. And once she came, all my
worrys seemed so stupid. What was I so worried
about? The thing about bestfriends is that they would
never judge you over such superficial things.

So now in your case, its all the same except that he's
your boyfriend. Just remind yourself why your with
him in the first place. The way I see this, nothing but
good can come out of this; if he doesnt freak, you
guys will be closer then ever, and if he does, youll
know that he isnt the right guy right? You would'nt
want a guy that freaks over such a little thing.


Even though he probbably wont mind,if you havent told him you live in a
trailer he will still probbably be surprised. While your
inviting him over, just joke with him about how he
should'nt expect anything big. Just kind of leave clues
as jokes, so that he won't be as surprised when he
gets their.

OH!
And most importantly make shure you dont worry
about all of this. I know it might seem so nerve
racking at first but trust me, once it happens it
will be like all of your worrys were about nothing.
Good luck!
Love,
Anne