Monday, July 25, 2011

Err Hello! Advice needed.

Dear Anne,

'I had an ex girlfriend, and she broke up with me a while ago, and I'm
barely hurting over it, but not much.
A few weeks ago, I met this other girl, who rocked my world.
She was sweet, she texted back, she was actually another romantic. And
we had a LOT in common!
We went out for a little over a week, but we both realized that we're
not ready for it. I'm still hurt from my ex, and she's still hurt from
hers. So we broke up. Decided to stay friends for now.
But I'm getting over my 1st ex really fast, because this girl got my
mind off of her.
I was checking my voicemails, and found one she had left me from the
short time that we went out, and she said that she misses me and is
sad that she missed the chance to talk to me. She said that she cant
wait to see me again and that she misses me(again).
It made my feelings for her skyrocket. I know I should wait a few
weeks before asking her about "Us" but in the mean time... Should I
try to talk to her casually or not? I know that if I l don't start a
conversation, I'll somehow pop into her mind, because I wouldn't be
texting her normally like we used to. But I'm stuck..
Care to help a guy out?
-A.H.'


AWNSER:Hi A.H. :),
I think you should'nt be afraid to keep talking to this girl. Maybe
you should'nt go all the way just yet, but don't completely leave her
out either.

If she really likes you like you like her, who knows maybe she is
having the same problem :)

But although that's possible, you still should'nt be so
confident just to make shure. Give her some space so she can
completely get over her ex, yet talk to her as a good friend.

You must be patient! Because having a girl that is completely in to
you is better then having a girl who is only partly in to you right?

With that said, still don't be afraid to talk to her. Be her friend
improve your relationship. Don't over do it though :P

Here's a bad example:
" Hey hotstuff i miss you, want to hang out?"

Here's a good example:
" Hey (insert her name here) how are you? Want to text?"

Oh and most importantly, be shure your over YOUR ex first. I'm pretty
shure you are but just to be safe, you don't want any old feelings to
pop up when you least expect it.

I hope everything goes well,
Love,
Anne.

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