I'm just not sure

Dear Anne

So basically, I'm not sure if this guy likes me or not.  We've known each other for 3 years but we only started talking to one another last year.  We go to different high schools, so we rarely see each other.  Right now, we finally have time to spend with each other and we've been talking a lot more- like whenever we can (and we're constantly around other friends). I enjoy his company and I think he does too. He always makes me smile and laugh XD. One day, one of my friends said, "I think he likes you." This sorta got me a bit paranoid about the idea.  I don't know if i like him (i was having some problems in the past which made me a bit deattached to my feelings but all is better now :).  Anyways, now the idea of it has been on my mind a lot. I know he cares for me but i just don't know if he actually likes me (i could be making a huge mistake here). Plus, I'm not gonna hear from him for a while (he's on vacation) and there's a good chance we won't see each other for a long time.  I'm kinda not sure what to do too.

-thanks

A.S.

AWNSER:

Hello A.S :),

Well I'm kinda torn here, and am not entirely shure what you're question is... You want to know if this guy likes you or not.

 First of, do you like him ? Think about it. You want to know if he likes you , but do you know what your going to do after you do find out?

  Oh the famous question that every one wishes to know "Do they like me?" 

I think you alredy know the awnser but your just too scared to be wrong. I know this is probbably the worst thing I can tell you, but you need to ask him yourself. No other person can give you a more accurate awnser, then himself. If your too shy to talk to him in person, maybe text him. Ofcourse, don't just randomnly ask him. Start a conversation about crushes and try to ease out the awnser from him. That's my advice on knowing if he likes you.

Theirs also body language, but you say you hardly see him and you're hardly alone so I don't think he'd be able to show so much of that.

  Now ask yourself, do you really want to know? You say he's leaving soon, so maybe things are better untold. Long distance relationships usually end up shattering, so to avoid it all maybe you should just stop now while you can.

In the end, it's up to you what you're going to do. What YOU think is best.

Good luck <3,

Anne